Should a student have a girlfriend or a boyfriend at university?

It is quite common seen that nowadays there are many more couples walking shoulder by shoulder on campus. Some people hold firm to their belief that the girlfriend – boyfriend relationship at university should not be acceptable because of its bad effect on students’ studies. Nonetheless, I take a different view that the effect may be positive or negative depending on your way to balance the relationship and the school work. To begin with, the relationship between the opposite sexes at university can take some advantages. Except your classmates and roommates, having a special person to love and be loved will make your life at university more colorful and meaningful. Nothing is sweeter and happier when receiving red roses, candies, kisses or hugs from your boyfriend/girlfriend. The honest affection will warm your life away from home. Additionally, you can help each other in life and studies as well. To illustrate, if you have a boyfriend excelling others in studies, he will become your motivation or inspiration to learn harder and better. However, every coin has two sides. When falling in love with everybody, we always want to be together with him/her. Apparently, the time has been divided into two parts. It means that the time we spend on the studies will be decrease. Therefore, if you do not know the way to control yourself and balance your time, your studies will become worse, even you cannot graduate and get pregnant at an early age. Furthermore, a broken relationship can lead to students’ negative attitude. Those who is heartbreaking usually choose suicide to relieve her/his feeling. This may bring much pain to their parents, relatives and friends. To sum up, when being a student, you should prioritize your studies above anything else. Having a boyfriend – girlfriend relationship is not bad; however, you have to balance between the study and the love.

Nutthida 4EN 020

Nowadays, coupling became as a trend among teenagers. Since secondary and even primary school, most of students involve in this scenario. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend such a trendy among them. Wherever we go, we can see too much couple dating here and there. It is really different if compared to 10 years passed. Before this, couple not a lifestyles among us. For me, I strongly believe that I SHOULD NOT have a boyfriend while studying. Study is more important than couple. Having a boyfriend while studying will affect my study. This is because, I am sure that I cannot manage my study time. I should focus on study because only academic will ensure my future. If I keep the good performance until finished the degree, I am sure that I will succeed at the end. I know that I no need boyfriend to help me in study because I have already a really good friend here. They can help me in study or even in my personnel problems.

Chamaiporn 017 4EN

I can’t judge which one is more suitable than another.
I think it’s up to them. Somebody has a girlfriend or boyfriend
that helps him or her to be happy. Somebody has a girlfriend or
boyfriend as an inspiration, they have a power to do everything,
such as studying, they can have a good grade.
For somebody, they are happy to has a girlfriend or boyfriend
but they don’t like studying, they will have a bad grade.



Tharinee 046 3EN

I should not or even no need to have a boyfriend while studying. It brings more disadvantages than advantages. I would like to advise my dear friends, think first before you act. Remember what is the most important in your life. Study must come first if you want to pass with flying colour at the end. Make the parents proud of you. REMEMBER! We as a girl still can enjoy the life without a boyfriends.

I think it's okay to have bf/gf at university because to begin with, the relationship between the opposite sexes at university can take some advantages. Except your classmates and roommates, having a special person to love and be loved will make your life at university more colorful and meaningful. Nothing is sweeter and happier when receiving red roses, candies, kisses or hugs from your boyfriend/girlfriend. The honest affection will warm your life away from home. Additionally, you can help each other in life and studies as well. To illustrate, if you have a boyfriend excelling others in studies, he will become your motivation or inspiration to learn harder and better.

Chanokporn 043 3EN